At the end of the day, after settling two kids, guilt comes in. I would feel guilty if I didn’t have patience enough, hug them enough or raise my voice too much. I heard of 9 minutes of quality time with kids to foster a long-lasting connection between parents and children. 3 mins when they wake, 3 mins when they come back from school and 3 mins before they go to bed.
currently, I feel more inadequate quality time with the elder one, A as I feel the younger one, L is interrupting. When I am sending off A to school, I can’t say Bye nicely because L will either cry or fussy. Maybe I need to start changing where and when to say Bye. Ohh Mann.. I am still learning what is best for all of us.
By the way, the ads are showing up on the site which I am glad. I have been reading a lot about making money online hahaha so far I like answering the surveys from Survey Junkie. some say it is a waste of time, e.g. 20 cents for 10 minutes, well you can choose spending time on social media or spending time on surveys and make 20 cents. This blog has been funded by survey money. I need to pay for blog domain name and security, about USD 30 for a year. I am glad I did it, I am glad I asked for help from my cousin. Thank you Ko Htoo.
